Understanding and Coping with Elder Abuse

Elder abuse is a crime. It is harm done to a senior by someone he/she knows and trusts such as a family member, visitor, social worker, doctor or nurse.

Warning Signs of Elder Abuse:
Elder abuse can be difficult to discuss because the people doing the abuse are usually people the senior knows and trusts. It is not often reported because the senior is afraid of revenge by the abuser or is ashamed that they cannot handle the abuse in the home themselves or the senior is concerned with being labeled as too demanding or senile. Here are some of the warning signs to look for.

Physical abuse:
Hitting, beating, pushing, sexual assault, forcing consumption of additional drugs, locking the senior in a room or house. Look for:

  • unusual cuts, bruises, burns, bites
  • poor personal hygiene
  • untreated bed sores
  • dirty clothing & linen
  • emotional withdrawal

Emotional abuse:
Yelling, use of harsh words, ignoring the senior, treating the senior like a child, and not allowing the senior to speak with others. Look for:

  • confusion
  • fear and anxiety
  • refusal to speak in front of someone
  • certain subjects will not be discussed

Financial abuse:
Not allowing the senior to spend money the way he/she wants, telling lies to get money or property from the senior, stealing money, jewelry or other possessions, forcing a senior to sell or give away property or sign Power of Attorney. Look for:

  • malnutrition
  • belongings are missing
  • sudden changes in senior's will
  • signing of Power of Attorney without discussing with a lawyer