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Understanding and Coping with
Elder Abuse
Elder
abuse is a crime. It is harm done to a senior by someone he/she knows
and trusts such as a family member, visitor, social worker, doctor or
nurse.
Warning Signs of Elder Abuse: Elder abuse can
be difficult to discuss because the people doing the abuse are usually
people the senior knows and trusts. It is not often reported because
the senior is afraid of revenge by the abuser or is ashamed that they
cannot handle the abuse in the home themselves or the senior is
concerned with being labeled as too demanding or senile. Here are some
of the warning signs to look for.
Physical abuse:
Hitting, beating, pushing,
sexual assault, forcing consumption of additional drugs, locking the
senior in a room or house. Look for:
- unusual cuts, bruises, burns, bites
- poor personal hygiene
- untreated bed sores
- dirty clothing & linen
- emotional withdrawal
Emotional abuse:
Yelling, use of harsh words,
ignoring the senior, treating the senior like a child, and not allowing
the senior to speak with others. Look for:
- confusion
- fear and anxiety
- refusal to speak in front of someone
- certain subjects will not be discussed
Financial abuse:
Not allowing the senior to
spend money the way he/she wants, telling lies to get money or property
from the senior, stealing money, jewelry or other possessions, forcing
a senior to sell or give away property or sign Power of Attorney. Look
for:
- malnutrition
- belongings are missing
- sudden changes in senior's will
- signing of Power of Attorney without discussing with a lawyer
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