HOW CAN I TELL IF MY CHILD IS IN A
GANG?
Tips on what to look for. Gang
prevention for Parents.
Gangs? In
Kosciusko County?
Yes, we have gang activity in Kosciusko County. It's been
here since at least 1988. Not of the magnitude that has often been depicted on
TV and in the movies, but it is still gang activity, and it causes problems for
everyone. Much of the activity here is of the street gang type, including
vehicle break ins, batteries, etc. As a parent, you have the opportunity to
affect the level of gang activity by education yourself about the problem,
talking with your children about gangs, and working with other parents to ensure
a safe and healthy neighborhood for your children.
What is a
Gang?
A gang is a group of people who have a common name, sign
or identifying symbol, and who engage in criminal activity.
Who joins a
gang?
Male and females, from all neighborhoods, races,
cultures, religious and economic levels are involved in gangs.
Why do youth
join gangs?
-
Family Substitute
- Friendship
- Economic benefit
- Power
- Status
- Security
- Love
- Thrill and Excitement
Is it
illegal to be in a gang?
It is not illegal in Indiana to be a member of a gang.
However, by legal definition, gangs engage in criminal activities. There are
laws in effect that target gang crimes, provide stiffer penalties for gang
members, and allow additional charges for criminal gang activities.
What
do they look like? What are they wearing?
GANG ATTIRE*
- Use of one or two colors, and/or refusing to wear
certain colors>
- Wearing the same style, much like a
"uniform".
- Bandannas, on head, an arm or leg, or both.
- Hats & baggy clothing with gang street names,
nicknames, etc. (Often done in stylish lettering).
- tattoos, often handmade, showing nickname, gang
affiliation, numbers/letters that indicate a particular gang. Burn marks,
scratches and magic markers are also used to make "tattoos".
*None of the above are
absolute proof that an individual is a gang member, but they do serve as
indicators, which along with other indicators, can be used to prove gang
membership.
Female Gang
Members
Females have traditionally been involved in gangs through
boyfriends, and friends who are gang members. They have not been allowed to be
members, but have been used to carry and conceal weapons, drugs, etc., and act
as drivers and lookouts. They are often ordered to provide alibis for male gang
members, as well as provide sexual companionship or demand. More recently,
increasing numbers of females have formed their own gangs, not affiliated with
male gangs. Some are extremely violent.
Graffiti and Tagging
Graffiti is advertising of gangs. It is used to claim
territory, challenge and disrespect rival gangs, show respect for fallen members
and show strength by listing its members.
"Taggers" (graffiti vandals) create ornate and detailed graffiti to
show their talent and ability to get away with tagging.
It is imperative that graffiti be removed quickly, after it is reported to
police and photographed.
How
can I tell?
WARNING
Signs
All children are at risk to be recruited to
join a gang, or are subject to being victimized by gang violence. Early warning
signs that something is wrong include changes in a young person's behavior and
attitudes. Other pre-gang and gang behavior include:
- Withdrawal from participation in school, family life,
church or other activities, compared to earlier behavior.
- Changes in dress and color preferences.
- Habitual lying and denial of problematic behavior.
- Major attitude problems with parents, teachers or
those in authority.
- Changes in language, including use of gang slang and
profanity, and use of hand signs.
- Displays money and property that are beyond child's
income, and is evasive about where the items came from.
- Use of drugs and/or alcohol.
- New friends, possibly fewer friends, that have a
negative influence.
- School grades drop, truancies increase and discipline
problems become more frequent.
- Appearance of different looking graffiti and gang
related writing on school books, clothing and other personal items.
- Carrying or possessing weapons, such as a gun, knife,
screwdriver, bat or club. Unable to identify the owners of these weapons.
- gang related tattoos (initials, names, numbers), burn
marks in a pattern or use of markers to make temporary tattoos on hands,
arms, legs, and other parts of the body.
What can
parents do?
- Spend time with your child!
- Ban gang related clothing and markings from your
child's wardrobe.
- Know your child's friends, and monitor their
activities and interests.
- Get to know the parents of your child's friends.
- Listen, really listen, to the lyrics of the music that
your child listens to. Discuss with your child the ideas and images
presented to them.
- Supervise your child's television watching, and make
time to watch selected programs together.
- Discuss with your child proper ways to deal with
conflict, hate and racism.
- Know your child's school and teachers. Find the time
to get involved in your child's education.
- Direct your child to the wholesome activities that are
available in your community. Recreation centers, libraries and churches
offer free activities for children. Use them! If they are not available,
help create them!
- Learn how to be parents. Many organizations and
schools have parenting classes that are fun and provide valuable tips on
dealing with children.
- Share information with your local police officers.
Many times, gang associations are identified by tips and questions from
concerned parents.
- Help promote gang awareness through civic group and
neighborhood activities. Police officers, trained and experienced in gang
activities, are available for talks to your group.
Checklist
for parents
- My child has a clear identity and understanding of his
or her cultural heritage.
- Our family has clear and consistent values, daily
routines and enforced rules. We don't resolve problems by yelling or through
violence.
- We have stability and commitment to the family. There
is support and open communications in our family.
- We provide a model for healthy behaviors for our
children.
- We have consistent homework practices and parental
involvement with school work.
- I am involved in my child's school activities.
- I monitor where my child is going and who he/she is
going with.
- My child spends time at home.
- My child has positive peer influences.
- My child is involved in school extracurricular
activities.
- My child in involved in organizations and clubs
outside of school.
- My child has good planning, decision making and
problem solving skills.
- If my children have a problem, they know they can come
to me.
- My child has goals and a positive view of the future.
*Each parent should complete this checklist.
RESOURCES
Information and help are available! In an
emergency, call 911.
Warsaw Police 574-372-9534 extension 325
*Officer Michael Cox
Indiana State Police 1-800-552-2959
* Trooper Laurie Lopez
Behavioral Health Care of Northern Indiana
1-800-795-6252
* Lynne Severns
Bowen Center 574-267-7169--1-800-342-5653
*Don Starke
Boys & Girls Clubs of Kosciusko County
574-268-1155
* Cindi Knepper